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The new baby
The new baby. Picture this… Your husband has decided to choose a new wife. She is younger than you and super cute. She is going to sleep with him in his room and wear all your clothes. (You know, the one’s that you are too old and fat for). She also get’s to drive your old car and play with all your favourite things, as you are too old for them now. This is really exciting for you, you will be able to share your world, and shop together and eat together and share your husban
Amanda Bueno de Mesquita
Aug 16, 2025
Puzzling Behaviour
Sometimes toddler behavior can appear puzzling , it seems like a child is being ‘naughty’ and we can get driven to our wits end trying to change their behaviours with time outs, sticker charts and so on. Frequently it is our own behaviours or to put it clearer it is what is going on in the child’s system and family that is causing a child’s ‘naughty’ times. It is important to attempt to understand what a child’s behavior is actually saying. Young children ( and many adults) a
Amanda Bueno de Mesquita
Aug 16, 2025
Are the terrible two's actually so terrible?
Are the terrible two’s actually so terrible or is your child struggling to find ways to express him/herself and become more independent? Many of us fall into the trap of micro managing our children. We leave work and they become our new project. We monitor their every waking or sleeping moment busily comparing them against other children. We measure, weigh, log and buy baby books crammed full of advice without really consciously considering who the advice came from. I recal
Amanda Bueno de Mesquita
Aug 4, 2025
